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  • Who’s forcing this kids to exist on their devices all the time?

    Schools making social media part of the curriculum, where homework involves designing social media content for learning purposes.

    And the fact that being the “odd one out” means social death. There are no more teen friendly skate parks to go to or malls to hang out at. Whatever public spaces remain are unsafe due to people driving 60 down a public road with minimum sidewalks. You’re either online with your friends or you’re alone.

    Who’s giving them access to cyber bullying?

    It’s the three body problem: putting three stellar objects in close proximity to each other will always result in a unstable system.

    Also like how do you stop bullying in an era where the public elects bully’s to run the world; and the corporations make money promoting your kids being bullied.

    No idea. I’m no expert here. But the first step is to recognize there’s an issue and talk about it. And not just here on lemmy, but everywhere.


  • I mean. That’s why I’m not interested in kids or parenting at all.

    I think there are a lot of gremlins out there with zero compassion and consideration for others. If parents were more vigilant about what was happening (and less dismissive of what other kids are saying) a lot of people would not have been hurt. Including myself.

    I think the bare minimum is parents need to know (1) what your children’s hobbies are (2) where your children are when leaving the house (3) what social media platforms/games does your child access. And I’m not saying this in a technical “surveillance” way, I mean the kids should be made to feel comfortable enough to provide this information to said adults. If kids are unwilling to provide this information, or even deliberately provide fake or masking information then you have a problem.


  • It’s not involved.

    But the personal data involved for most individuals has increased dramatically, which increases the risks of harm dramatically. Most people’s online identities are now intricately tied to their daily lives for better or worse.

    It requires the same basic knowledge and precautions.

    Which some of us learn the hard way. I don’t think I’ve seen anyone value privacy prior to being burned themselves first. But at that point, the damage is already done.

    It’s also unreasonable to expect everyone to know everything. For example, I don’t drive. I wouldn’t know how to stop a car from the backseat if the driver were to have a medical emergency.

    it involves vigilant parents and an involved school system.

    Parents couldn’t track where their kids were doing 24/7 prior to the Internet. What makes you think they can do that now?

    As a side note: do post-2020 work schedules allow parents to communicate with their children sufficiently?

    We didn’t solve bullying we embraced it.

    As someone who’s been hurt and hurt people back in the day this is NOT the way to do things. Whoever thinks it’s possible to “tough it out” has not been through systemic bullying for years, nor know of the physical and mental medical toll it has decades after the original incidents. I do not wish this upon anybody.

    Quite frankly, I am sick of people downplaying these issues because the “bullying” issue no longer affects them while chat control and age verification does. There should be a platform to discuss both these problems without downplaying the consequences of ignoring either.





  • Some people play games to turn their brains off. Other people play them to solve a different type of problem than they do at work. I personally love optimizing, automating, and min-maxing numbers while doing the least amount of work possible. It’s relatively low-complexity (compared to the bs I put up with daily), low-stakes, and much easier to show someone else.

    Also shout-out to CDDA and FFT for having some of the worst learning curves out there along with DF. Paradox games get an honorable mention for their wiki.



  • Is there a specific reason you’re looking at shadowsocks? The original developer has been MIA for years. People who used it in the past largely consider it insecure for its original stated purpose

    trojan-gfw is a better modern replacement. However that requires a certificate in order to work. You can easily get one via lets encrypt.

    At this point, let Shadowsocks, obfs, and kcp die a graceful death like GoAgent before it did.


  • I don’t think either of us is the target audience here. I can see a “cheaper” (questionable) Pro laptop being useful for students going into college with a limited budget. An undergrad CS/graphic design degree shouldn’t tax an 8gb machine too much, assuming students shut down everything else when doing their once-a-semester major rendering/compiling/model training. If people just want Macbook pro software with more ports, a “cheaper” machine is better than none. Personally, I would still get a used/refurbished machine though.

    That being said, my current laptop workload tends to be emacs, qpdfview, Firefox, and tmux on EL9. For the remaining stuff, I usually just spin up a VM then ssh/xrdp into it. As for slack, teams, jabber, etc, I’m happy to report I’ve been out of industry/IT for 1+ years and don’t plan on going back anytime soon. For all I care, Apple can call their models unicorn edition. As long as it sells it’s not stupid.




  • 8gb RAM and 256 gb storage is perfectly fine for a pro-ish machine in 2023. What’s not fine is the price point they are offering it (but if idiots still buy that, that’s on them and not apple). I’ve been using a 8gb ram 256 gb storage Thinkpad for lecturing, small code demos, and light video editing (e.g. zoom recordings) this past year, it works perfectly fine. But as soon as I have to run my own research code, back to the 2022 Xeon I go.

    Is it Apple’s fault people treat browser tabs as a bookmarking mechanism? No. Is it unethical for Apple to say that their 8GB model fits this weirdly common use case? Definitely.